When You Reject Yourself!

My sister and I have been talking about SELF-REJECTION lately... What it is, you ask? Simple. It's folks not taking risks or not involving THEMSELVES based on what they think OTHERS will do or are doing. It's dis-inviting yourself and isolating yourself for whatever reason. Self-rejecters say, no one gets me. I'm too weird. I'm too different. You anticipate rejection, and not fitting in. Essentially, self-rejecters are mind readers and projectors. Sometimes, you ARE different. Sometimes, you DON'T fit in, but you BELONG. The Universe is VAST with friends and resources for you. But!!!!! What you SAY is, they won't get me anyway. What you SAY is, they didn't invite me, they must not want me there. What you SAY is, I won't invite them, because they won't come anyway. What you reallllly should be saying is, I feel like an outcast. What you reallllly should be saying is, I want an invitation. What you realllly should be saying is, I miss you/them. Soooo... How you can change it? Be available. Be visible. Be open. And don't ASSume. lol Some of us belong to another tribe than that represented around us. That's ok too. But you are still worthy of an invitation. You are still worthy of an rsvp. You still belong and can have fun, and DON'T have to sit in a corner. YOU are valuable. Don't reject yoursel